In days gone by a ‘handshake deal’ was as binding as any legal contract. This notion filtered down to the words used between people. If someone said they would do something, then one party trusted it would be done and the other party was responsible enough to follow through and do it. Trust was maintained and the relationship could grow and be strong.
Jesus referred to this binding of our words when He said in Matthew 5:37, “But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.”
In contrast, a relationship can be eroded by promises that are not kept and words that have no value.
Often, we make vows to God out of a desire to have a strong relationship with Him as a loving, heavenly Father. In the time of the law of Moses, where actions and words carried a price, Moses wrote the message above to `do what we say we will do‘. The only thing that can separate us from God during this era of Grace is not recognising and repenting for our own sin. We should, therefore, recognise the need to fulfil those promises we have made to God, so they do not become a burden to us. Deuteronomy 23:21, “When thou shalt vow a vow unto the Lord thy God, thou shalt not slack to pay it: for the Lord thy God will surely require it of thee; and it would be sin in thee.”
There are always times when our weakness is greater than our will, which is why the Lord sent His Spirit to help us as an indwelling strength to pay our vows. By remembering our promises to the Lord and endeavouring to fulfil them we are working at maintaining this truthful, strong relationship based on trust.
Psalm 34:22, “The Lord redeemeth the soul of his servants: and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate.”

